Bug#1049326: pandas FTBFS with numexpr 2.8.5

[Rebecca N. Palmer]

stringToExpression() in this numexpr patch needs a default of True for 
sanitize (like the others already have), because pytables calls that 
directly:

https://salsa.debian.org/science-team/pandas/-/jobs/4571451/raw

(The other failure in there is one I plan to fix.)

The two pytables tests with [] are operations that are supposed to fail 
but that now check for the wrong exception type - upstream fix:

https://github.com/PyTables/PyTables/pull/1046