Bug#1092354: python3-vtk9: segfault on Python 3.13

[Drew Parsons]

Package: vtk9
Followup-For: Bug #1092354
Control: forwarded 1092354 https://gitlab.kitware.com/vtk/vtk/-/issues/19466

Reported and fixed upstream,
https://gitlab.kitware.com/vtk/vtk/-/merge_requests/11486

Found also in paraview, which shamefully ships its own vtk and needs
the same patch.

There is also the problem
https://gitlab.kitware.com/vtk/vtk/-/issues/19468
also fixed
https://gitlab.kitware.com/vtk/vtk/-/merge_requests/11494

Both these patches landed in vtk 9.4,
so the simplest fix is to upgrade to the latest upstream release.